Family's in Child Custody Arrangements
This going kind of weird. Because I am actually going to be writing about my wife and how she deals with the everyday task of being step mom. Her tips on going threw it all. Since the begin of when my wife has came into the life of my daughter and mine. She has fell right in love with my daughter and treated her as her own. No matter what happens she is always there for my daughter.
She goes to all the school meetings and class trips. She does way more for my daughter then her real mom does. For a long while she was my daughters only mother figure she had. Because my daughter mom
wasn't really in her life that much. My wife has been in our life for seven years. At times it is so tough on her because either what my ex does or she has no say in family court. It breaks my heart they way
a parent can stay and love a kid. Treat that kid as their own. Take care of them for all the years but in the court eyes and other people eyes they are nothing to that kid.
The ex and the step parent
Nothing burns your ex more by knowing that you have a new person in your life and that you are happy. Where the ex don't have a chance to get you back.
So what do they do?? They try to wrecked your new life. My ex has done a lot to my wife. Some things she has done was telling my daughter to hate my wife, messing up special days my daughter and wife have together.
and calling names. Basically trying to start fights between her and my wife. So how does my wife handle it. Your going to laugh and say no way. But this true and so hard to do. It is called being the bigger person. She puts a smile on her face and is so nice to my ex.
It drives my ex crazy. She can't handle how nice my wife is to her. It don't makes since to my ex. I mean my wife has learned in the battle of child custody arrangements the only way to get back at the ex is to be nice to her. She can't start yelling at my ex or getting in a fight with her. Lord knows she has wanted to a lot of times. This just makes my wife and I look bad in family court. Because in family court the step parent doesn't mean nothing until they do something wrong. Not only that if she did fight with my ex. The only person that will really end up getting hurt is my daughter.
So the only way that my wife can get back at my ex is being totally nice to her. I know it is hard to do but that is the best I can tell you. Also no matter how mad you get don't show it in front of the kids.
Family Court And The Step Parent
This is the one I find really messed up. Because like I said my wife has been in my daughters life for seven years. Been more of a parent then my ex has been. She can't go into the court room when it is being held. In their eyes she is nothing unless she does something wrong.
They don't care that she goes to all the school meetings and class trips. Or that my ex has not even been to one. So what can you do? The thing my wife has found out is the only place she is allowed to speak her mind. Or tell her points is in the meeting with my lawyer. She will tell the lawyer everything she knows and the lawyer will transfer the info
too the judge. It is the only way we have figure out. It is hard because my wife loves my daughter and she really don't have a say in my daughter life!!
Child Custody Arrangements Website
